Friday, January 18, 2013

LIFE IN A CONCRETE JUNGLE



I live in a metro city and I am enjoying the well-laid roads, sky-scraping shopping malls, and posh restaurants and coffee shops, transport facility with best connectivity, communication facility, best education, medical facility and job opportunities. The metro rail network is also coming up which will still shrink my traveling time. I am still not proud to live in a metro city despite the facilities listed above. Read on to know why.

I travel a long distance to my office and back home. In fact I spend 1/8th of a day on travel. So I have a lot of time to gaze at my surroundings and pass time while commuting in my office bus. I see a lot of development. The development is not positive. I am denied with calm and stress- free environment, clean air to breathe, congestion-free roads, green patch of land, chirping sound of birds, rustling sound of trees etc. Lot of greener pastures has been turned into concrete jungle by the real estate developers. Farmers sell agricultural land to a builder and look for alternatives for survival. We can’t blame them either. The rain god is playing havoc, so farmers do not get proper yield for their crops. They also have loans outstanding at various banks which they are unable to repay. This puts them in a pitiable situation. The builder exploits their situation and purchases lands at cheap prices, builds a gated-community area and sells it for enormous profit. Considering the pace at which these buildings are coming up, our future generations will own an apartment in one of the gated-communities but will be left with no grains and vegetables on their plate. Instead they will be forced to eat energy tablets to sustain themselves.

People settle down in the outskirts fearing higher cost of living in the heart of the city. The city is ever-expanding with its radius increasing at enormous pace. One has to undergo a lot of struggle to commute even a small distance, thanks to the bursting of human and vehicular population. I have seen innumerable times how an ambulance struggles to find road in the evening traffic when the vehicles move at snail’s pace. There is no guarantee for the patient’s life inside the ambulance. The worried looks on the face of the patient’s relatives is painful to see. 

Most schools are not situated in a calm and peaceful locality. They are situated right on the main road where vehicles honk and honk endlessly even if they see “School Zone. Horns prohibited” boards. The children are not able to concentrate in the class and they get to inhale only carbon monoxide. Children are robbed off their evening play time because they either have to travel a long time or wait endlessly at traffic signals. At the end of the day, they are mentally tired and only get to bury their faces into the pillows when they get home.  
Working professionals also spend a lot time on travel but little time with their children. This deprives kids of the necessary attention and guidance from parents to mold their kids’ character. The wife and husband rarely meet due to erratic work timings or because of reaching home late. A strong bond is missing in the family which is very essential for a happy living.

Shopping malls and super markets were alien to us some time back. It was all western culture. But now I can see super markets on every street and shopping malls in every area. The trick used by super markets and shopping malls to increase sales is very simple. All products in different brands are kept on display. When a family enters the super market with a groceries list, they definitely end up buying more than required. This is because they want to try out different brands kept on display and also because their kids would be attracted to the colorful stack of chocolates or chips. Same is the scenario with shopping malls where all items are over-priced. People throng the malls on weekends to spend their hard-earned money in an unhealthy manner. Everyone wants to “eat, shop, dress and live western”!

I have not heard the chirping of birds ever since I relocated to the city. Squirrels, small birds like sparrows, owls are nowhere in sight. This is because there is a cell phone tower in nearly every home. Birds are not comfortable with the radiation from the tower. We are only creating an unfriendly environment to those friendly and lovely creatures. I have heard about Darwin’s theory: Survival of the fittest. The fittest will survive. But the human race will be alone on Earth in the distant future. The other creatures would have succumbed.

We can proudly say that we have developed in terms of economy, technology, culture and stuff. But according to me, this development is at the cost of all the above.


Saturday, January 12, 2013

It has been a long time......



It has been a long time,precisely 25 months since I wrote my last blog. It is not that the flow of ideas ceased,it is because of lack of time and interest. Now that I have found time and forced myself into my chair and in front of my laptop, I thought of telling you all about happenings in my life and around.


Lot of things happened around me. Last month,one of my sister was raped and brutally beaten up by some bunch of thugs and was thrown onto the platform.She was lying there naked,shivering in the biting cold along with her friend who was equally beaten up with iron rods. Yes, I am talking about the brave heart from Delhi who battled for her life and finally gave up when she thought she will be 'safer' in heaven. Lot of people took to the streets,protesting against the brutal crime,demanding stricter laws be enforced and swifter punishments be given.Hunger strikes and candle light marches followed. I was thinking about the punishment that should be given to those 6 animals,one of them a minor. I have been hearing different opinions from people - some say capital punishment must be given, some are against it. I thought a little differently. All their photos have to be flashed in media. They have to be let out. The people on the roads will take care of the rest.RIP,sister!


In the mean time I was fasting for Sabari Malai Ayyappan. I was satisfied with my fasting and puja. My dad and I, along with 8 others including our guru swami visited the holy place of Sabari Malai. HE was mesmerizing as usual. Everyone will fall in love with HIM. Such is his power.The power of attraction. We had 5 darshans, one with Irumudi. 5 darshans does not suffice and we were not satisfied. But HE is not only for us but for everyone. While on our way back, we had the privilege of visiting some of the holiest shrines in Kerala.Kerala is known for its temples and its size. There is not much of architecture with lot of sculptures as in the temples of Tamilnadu. But they were astoundingly big and vast.Each temple easily covers a football field or two. We went to Ettumanoorappan temple,a Shiva temple in Ettumanoor. We even visited Guruvayur and sought Guruvayurappan's blessings. The best temple I had even been to is Vadakkanathar temple in Thrissur.The temple was vast in terms of area and had all deities inside it. There was extreme silence except for the rustling of the trees and chirping of birds and occasional ringing of temple bell. My mind was at peace. I totally enjoyed the trip and this pilgrimage trip will continue next year also.

My friends and I had planned something big for New Year's eve celebrations. The plan doomed due to various reasons.So instead we decided to have some fun during the subsequent weekend.I had never been to Barbeque Nation,a restaurant loved and recommended by many of my colleagues. According to them, they served the best buffet in a calm and pleasant ambiance.Since it is the most preferred destination for many, it will be packed during weekends.So I had booked a table 3 days in advance. We also planned for a movie - The Hobbit : An Unexpected Journey. Everything went as planned - the food,movie and the journey. No hassles,delay or hurdles whatsoever. Had a perfect and memorable Saturday - 5th of Jan.

Ang Lee's Life of Pi was released. Many flocked the theaters and came out satisfied. I did not want to watch the movie. I thought I can live the experience by reading the book, a best-seller by Yann Martel.I was not disappointed. Martel's style of narration and the story was very gripping.A definite page-turner. The book is much better than the movie minus the visuals. Now that I have imagined the whole story in my mind, I am dying to watch it come into life in front of eyes. Currently reading 'The Discovery of India' by Jawaharlal Nehru.

At present I am recovering from my CAT result debacle. This was my third attempt. All attempts were without attending proper coaching.I realized this was the reason for my failure,realized a tad too late.I was not sure of a 90 percentile, but I was not expecting it to be this low either. I do not want to disclose my percentile because of sheer embarrassment. The way I was campaigning that I will be writing CAT and showing off those fat books 5 months before the test date resulted in more embarrassment when the results were out. People around me started asking me the marks and I had to hang my face down. I was not able to say it to my parents either.I even felt that I let myself down,I let my friends down and also my parents down. Two days passed,now I had gathered some confidence by saying "You are not a failure.You are not an idiot.You are not a good-for-nothing lad.It was just the lack of preparation.Better luck next time.". I was back on my feet!


Lot of other things also in mind.I do not want to bother you guys too much as of now.So, see you next time.